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So I had a lovely weekend, for the most part, but last night took a turn for the worst.
There is someone who is dear to me who I’ve known for a while was struggling with some depression and mental health problems. I knew that it was causing problems, and he just went through some intense personal stuff, but I was under the impression that he was dealing with it all.
Last night I got a text that he was in crisis, and I went over to talk for a while. He was drunk, and having a total breakdown that was scary to watch.
He had calmed down by the time I left, and says he’ll be in touch today, but I am frantic and a bit hysterical. I don’t know if I did the right thing in my dealings with him, and I don’t know what to do. I feel ill.
I needed my gentlest tea this morning, as I was shivering in on practically no sleep, and my stomach feels horrible.
I really don’t know what to do here.

ashmanra

You are a good friend. It must feel helpless. Is a professional involved at all? You will both be in my prayers.

Fjellrev

Echoing that you are an amazing friend and I hope he is alright.

Rosehips

Thank you both. He’s not currently seeing a professional, though he’s said he’ll make an appointment to see one. I hope he does soon.

Fjellrev

I hope he does too.

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ashmanra

You are a good friend. It must feel helpless. Is a professional involved at all? You will both be in my prayers.

Fjellrev

Echoing that you are an amazing friend and I hope he is alright.

Rosehips

Thank you both. He’s not currently seeing a professional, though he’s said he’ll make an appointment to see one. I hope he does soon.

Fjellrev

I hope he does too.

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I love tea! I confess that I was a hot chocolate lover for most of my life, but recently a switch has gone off in my brain, and suggested that I might just love tea. And I do!
I’m a bit of a novice, but an enthusiastic one, and am happily sipping new varieties all the time.
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